What’s So Great About Gatsby

I honestly feel like Gatsby is trying to do good but just is blind and has tunnel vision for Daisy. He is neither a good or a bad person in my perspective, just a lost man trying to find love in a harsh society. Because he is trying so very hard to get Daisy to fall in love with him by throwing parties after parties just to get her to notice him, just like when Gatsby threw a huge party for Daisy and he wanted everything from the decorations to the food to be just for her. Then Nick opens up in the book that he thinks he is the only honest person in this book. If he was the only honest person in this book he would always be honest and tell Gatsby how he actually  feels about him and what he think he is. But he is the technically the most honest person compared to everyone else in this book that even lie to themselves. Then Fitzgerald describes that Tom and Daisy's relationship is smashed together with money and carelessness. I feel like this is true because why would Daisy even want to be with Tom if he didn’t have money. So I’m theory Daisy is a little of a gold digger. I really don’t understand Daisy’s behavior at all in this book. Because she seems so nice and rude at others and I feel like she doesn’t know what she wants I’m life. Because she always has a man like Tom to tell her what to do and when to do it. And I don’t fully agree with her choices at some times like why can’t she just dump Tom and stay with Gatsby because it’s pretty obvious that Gatsby will never cheat and disown her at all like Tom does. I wouldn’t actually advise my brother to date her but I’m not the boss of his life so I wouldn’t bother even saying anything. And the last line I feel like it means to push on in life and don't look back on your past, just learn from them and keep pushing on through the worst with experience from your past.